Money in a marriage
Rows about money are rarely about the amount. They are about who gave what, who owes whom, and who has to ask. These letters are about money between two people who share a life.
Other topics: Anger and apology · Endings and letting go
Too awkward to ask a friend?
Write it to me instead. Your friends know you too well, and your family has a stake in the answer. I don’t. I’ll answer your letter on Why We Took It Personally, with your name and details changed.